The problem is in the

cloudadmins_org — Tue, 15 Jan 2013 11:50:47 +0000

The problem is in the MOD_PROXY of the APACHE when you use CANDY-MOD_REWRRITE.

We have the same problem than you.... So .... We are researching about it

and we discovered that you need to put this in apache2.conf

ProxyTimeout 70

/etc/apache2# tail -n 2 /etc/apache2/apache2.conf
ProxyTimeout 70

Or the other solution is reducing timeout BOSH of Ejabberd putting for example 10 seconds.

But is more better the first solution.

ejabberd - Comments for "BOSH connection is strangly terminated - presense information inconsistent"