sorry for the question but ....
why happen this
in ejabberd web interface i created two users usra and usrb
in two pcs i log with the exodus client usra in pc1 and usrb in pc2
all seems ok
but....
in pc1 i add as a contact the usrb user and this one is showed in the contact list as
usrb(pending)
the same situation happens in pc2(usrb) when i add as contact usra shows
usra(pending)
and no popup window is showed is any place to ask if i want to accept it as contact, etc.
what i configured wrong ? exodus ? ejjaberd
ps. i am using win 2000 OS and the two pc's are in the same lan as the ejabberd server