pending contacts

sorry for the question but ....

why happen this

in ejabberd web interface i created two users usra and usrb

in two pcs i log with the exodus client usra in pc1 and usrb in pc2

all seems ok

but....
in pc1 i add as a contact the usrb user and this one is showed in the contact list as
usrb(pending)

the same situation happens in pc2(usrb) when i add as contact usra shows
usra(pending)

and no popup window is showed is any place to ask if i want to accept it as contact, etc.

what i configured wrong ? exodus ? ejjaberd

ps. i am using win 2000 OS and the two pc's are in the same lan as the ejabberd server

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