Hi there =)
Just setup an ejabberd 0.9.1 server and it is up and running. I've been playing with the Shared Roster option using the webadmin. I am using the GAIM windows client. It is working well except for one little problem. When I login the group shows up automatically which is very nice but it has the current user who has logged in displayed in the group. So if the group has User1, User2, User3 and I login as User1 I see all of the members including User1. It is just one of those little things that you would like gone but don't create a big problem. Another funny thing is sometimes when I login it shows User1 as offline and sometimes online. I had a nice conversation with myself when I was online. If anyone has any suggestions on what I may be doing wrong with the groups that would be super =)